Question
My husband and I work together, and we have a company. Thank God, we earn a lot, and this is a blessing from God upon us. However, my husband takes all the money and tells me: You spend it on empty things. If you need something urgently, I will give you. I do not want to leave my money with him because I need things that I do not want my husband to know about. For example, I help my family, and I feel that everyone is in need, and I cannot always ask him and get his permission. Am I being disobedient if I insist on taking my rights and putting them in my personal account?
Answer
I say, and with God's help: It is obligatory for him to give you your right and for you to have the right to dispose of it as you wish. If he refuses that, you should obtain your right in a manner you see fit, and God knows best.