I am a 38-year-old man who got engaged to a girl and married her on the basis that she is a student of knowledge with a refined mindset, different from other women. However, it became clear to me that she married me for money and is more interested in shopping, outings, and restaurants. It also became evident that she does not care about cleanliness. I am confused about whether to continue the marriage or divorce and pay her the dowry. I now have a complex about women. How can I find a suitable wife without being deceived? This is despite the fact that I discussed all of this with her before the marriage contract, and she assured me of what I liked. Please advise me.