My husband swore an oath of divorce against me a long time ago if I hide something from him or do something without telling him about it. He wants to know every little detail because he is traveling, but something happened that I couldn't tell him about because he is hot-tempered, and if he finds out, it could lead to a big problem. I want to keep my home, but he threatens me with this oath every hour. What I mean now is that since I didn't tell him what happened, has the oath truly been invoked against me or not? How should I act?