I say, and with God's guidance: It is preferable for you to involve family and relatives in weddings, as long as they are not mixed or involve alcohol, even if there is music and similar things; because there is generally a difference of opinion among scholars regarding this, and it can be overlooked when attending parties if we do not have the authority to prevent them, especially if the party is not ours, as this should not prevent attendance at gatherings due to such reasons; for it would sever family ties and hinder fulfilling obligations due to the presence of such a sin. However, if you prefer not to attend during the music, that is better, but do not let such matters be a reason for severing ties with your family. And God knows best.